Rewriting Your Story: Discovering Yourself Through God’s Grace in Ordinary Time
Day 15: Looking Inward Before Responding Outward
Theme: Identifying Relationship Triggers and Responses – A New Beginning
📖 Scripture Readings:
Genesis 12:1–9 – “Go forth from the land of your kinsfolk…”
Psalm 33:12–13, 18–19, 20 and 22 – “Blessed the people the Lord has chosen to be his own.”
Matthew 7:1–5 – “Remove the wooden beam from your eye first…”
Reflection:
When God called Abram to leave behind his homeland, He was not just initiating a physical relocation, but a spiritual transformation. Abram had to step away from what was familiar and comfortable to step into God’s promise. In the same way, identifying our relationship triggers begins by courageously stepping away from automatic reactions, judgment, and self-justification—and moving toward self-awareness and humility.
Jesus’ words in Matthew 7 are clear and piercing: “Remove the wooden beam from your eye first.” Often, we find ourselves focused on others’ flaws—especially when we feel misunderstood, rejected, or hurt. But many of our emotional reactions are rooted in our own past experiences, unmet needs, or deep insecurities. The “beam” Jesus refers to may be a hidden fear, a wound from childhood, or an unresolved hurt that clouds our vision in relationships.
The Psalm reminds us that “the eyes of the Lord are upon those who hope for His kindness.” God isn’t asking us to confront these triggers alone. Just as He was with Abram at every stage of his journey, He walks with us now, patiently guiding us toward wholeness.
Today marks the beginning of a new arc—one that invites you to look inward before reacting outward. Instead of judging or blaming others, this is a time to ask yourself: “What is this reaction showing me about my own heart?”
Action/Practice:
Think of a recent moment when you felt frustrated or misunderstood in a relationship. Rather than focusing on what the other person did, reflect on your own emotional response. Ask God to show you if there’s a deeper “beam” He wants to help you remove.
Journal Prompt:
“What reactions do I tend to have in moments of conflict or tension? What might those reactions be pointing to within me?”
Daily Goal:
Before responding in a moment of emotional tension today, pause and turn inward. Ask God to help you see your own beam—and trust Him to guide your next step.